Thursday, 15 November 2007

Tithe Schmithe

Synchroblog: Money and the Church

You can't really blame the institutionalised elements of the Church for having the unnerving ability to turn our freedom in Christ into principles and programs, rules and regulations that start resembling Old Testament temple practices as soon as our backs are turned. It goes with the territory, whenever the structure is allowed to usurp the focus on the people who really are the Church. But of course, the problem really lies deeper. It goes all the way down to our own tendency to want to reduce God down to manageable size. Sometimes he is just damn scary with his unknowableness, his disarming tendency to ask us to do things we don't want to, to just invade everything. We want him small enough to put in our pockets. I think we can safely call this part of us our flesh ;) It doesn't love freedom half as much as our spirit does.

So many church building groups seem unwilling to see how the concept of the tithe is just not really anywhere in the New Testament. The thing is, it's in the interests of church buildings to have a tithe. They need their people to contribute to them to keep them going, keep the full-time pastor paid, keep the lawns watered, the electricity bill paid for. On and on it goes. Anyway - it's only right that those who frequent the building regularly should contribute towards its upkeep. I just don't think that the people who do this should brush off their hands when they put their 10% in the offering plate on a Sunday morning and think that they have done the "Lord's work". What they have done is contribute maintenance towards a gathering that they frequent. That's all.

What would happen if we took our 10% principle, our "God won't bless you financially unless you give him his due" law (purlease; do you really think God is that small?) and instead expanded the conceptions, regarding everything as his already? Not only the cattle on a thousand hills. And what about if we expanded it even further again and thought that not only is it all his, but it's all a gift. For us. A generous gift from a generous god who is not interested in skimping. I suspect our flesh's preference for a 10% tithe reflects our deep dark thoughts in the middle of the night that maybe God is not as generous as we would like or need him to be, nor as kind. If we are dealing with a nasty, small god, then of course our flesh finds it easier to bury our talents in the offering plate, because it's safer; then we've "done our bit" and God can't call us onto the carpet and accuse us of not giving him his due.

What happens if God's ideas of how he would like us to use our money are more fluid than giving our 10%? What if it's more organic, less able to be reduced down to an Excel spreadsheet? What happens if one week he doesn't ask us to give him any money (perish the thought!), but the next week asks us to give the homeless bloke on the corner 100 bucks, or to donate the same to a micro finance project, or to just put away in our purses and wallets and see if he won't give us directives on where he would like us to give it? What would happen if we took our "tithes" to the streets, to the current day "widows and orphans" instead of using them to keep the plumbing going, or nice new downlights for buildings that less and less people are frequenting anyway (have we noticed?)

Maybe God is more good than we thought he was, more kind, more generous and more giving. What would happen if we as the Church began flirting with the idea that God really is the kind of god that wants us to jump into his lap and call him Papa? What then? Then our fists would loosen.

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This is part of a synchroblog. The other contributors are listed below. Follow the links, and watch the fur fly!

The Check That Controls at Igneous Quill by Adam Gonnerman
Trusting God: A New Perspective at Eternal Echoes by Sally Coleman
Greed and Bitterness at Square No More by Phil Wyman
But I Gave at Church at The Assembling of the Church by Alan Knox
Moving Out of Jesus Neighborhood at Be the Revolution by David Fisher
Money and the Church: why the big fuss? at Mike's Musings by Mike Bursell
Bullshit at The Agent B Files by Agent B
The Bourgeois Elephant... at Headspace by Lainie Petersen
The Church and Money at Khayna by Steve Hayes
Pushing The Camel at Fenando's Desk by Fernando Gros
Lord, Won't You Buy Me a Mercedes Benz at Hello Said Jenelle by Jenelle D'Alessandro
Walking with the Camels at Calacirian by Sonja Andrews
Money and the Church: A Fulltime Story at The Pursuit by Lew A
Coffee Hour Morality at One Hand Clapping by Julie Clawson
Bling Bling in the Holy of Holies at In Reba's World by Reba Baskett
Money's too tight to mention at Out of the Cocoon by Paul Walker
When the Church Gives at Payneful Memories by Leah
Greed at Hollow Again by Dan Allen
Magazinial Outreach at Decompressing Faith by Erin
Silver and Gold Have We - Oops at Subversive Influence by Brother Maynard
What if We had Nothing by Tim Abbott
Who, or What, Do You Worship at Charis Shalom by Bryan Riley
Zach at Johhny Beloved by Zach Forrest
Wealth Amidst Powers at Theocity by Kirk Bartha

12 comments:

Kent said...

Sue, I'm with you.

I think maybe one of your questions might not go far enough.

"I suspect our flesh's preference for a 10% tithe reflects our deep dark thoughts in the middle of the night that maybe God is not as generous as we would like or need him to be, nor as kind."

I actually suspect that it might just be that deep down inside, many aren't even sure that any of this God story is true?

Sue said...

Hey Kentster,

Yeah, I reckon there's probably a fair bit of that going down too.

Andrea said...

I know there are churches out there that manipulate people into giving a tithe through guilt and obligation, but I cant say Ive ever felt like that.
At the moment I give to my church when I can, and noone is ever looking over my shoulder to see if I do or dont, or how much it is. Noone has ever made me feel Im not doing my duty to God if I dont stick a hefty sum in the plate each Sunday.
I have no problem giving money towards the maintenace of the building I use,(as you said, it's fair enough to do so) but I also see it as giving money to help others to do missionary work or outreach to the community or to help church families. If I feel something needs finanial help, then fine, I'll help out. If I cant or need it for something else, then good too! We waste so much of our money anyway, Id much rather it goes to church to bring God glory, if that's what I feel he wants me to do with my moolah.

Sue said...

I knew I would hear from you, considering our views are so different on this one ;)

Good, do what you think God is asking you to do. I'm just calling it how I see it from my v-e-r-y limited perspective.

Andrea said...

v-e-r-y limited perspective??
hmm ok..I'm not dismissing your experiences..but yeah just saying I havent felt like that myself.

Erin said...

Yeah. Good one. I especially liked Kent's comment. I have been preached to about how important it is to trust God enough to tithe, and deep down I have always wondered if that were true. But I think what Kent said is true too. I know people who choose between tithing and paying the mortgage and then can't understand when the bank forecloses. Wasn't God supposed to provide for them? "Um yeah, He did, but you gave it away."

Not to say giving is bad, but we have to use our brains, too.

Tina said...

I love what you wrote here, Sue. My husband actually mentioned on many occasions how sad it was that the building we used to help pay to maintain with our "tithe" was really only used twice a week for a few hours. The staff offices were only a small part of it. The bulk of the building is empty most of the time.

When we were still living the life of religious obligation, my husband would wonder why we couldn't open those doors to feed the hungry and and just be a safe place every day of the week. But, I suppose the hungry and down-trodden may have gotten the carpet dirty (yes, that was meant to be a touch sarcastic - sorry). After all, they charge outrageous amounts just to have a wedding or baby shower there for the people already paying.

I better stop typing now and get my attitude in check! I'll actually go up to the top and read Kent's comment now since it was most likely more uplifting than this. :)

Sue said...

Andi - well, my perspective IS limited (as much as I would like to think I am a mystical genius)

Erin: yeah, that whole give God your money as if he's some sort of slot machine when you can't pay your mortage - that is sad

Tina: don't change your attitude - I loves it :) And I laughed when you said you were going to read Kent's comment for its uplifting content because it was one of Kent's more ... well, cynical comments :) Loves ya, Kentster

Paul said...

yup - i agree. giving is great but there shouldn't be a % sign attached to it - its great to learn to be generous, to give and not be in control of what the money is spent on etc etc - these are bigger more fun thangs than ticking a box called tithe.

Cindy said...

Sue- great thoughts here! I'll be quoting you soon.

lucy said...

hi sue--
i posted here yesterday and now don't see it. the same thing happened a couple of days ago. are you editing me out or is the blogosphere eating my comments while traveling across the sea? please answer kindly :-)

Sue said...

Paul - yes, indeedy. (I hope your flu is passing?)

Cindy - cool.

Lucy - huh? That's a bit strange! I would certainly not delete any of ur comments. The blogosphere must be hungry.