tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post8178662971934848346..comments2023-07-17T23:10:02.228+10:00Comments on Discombobula: ForgivenessSuehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01122659239039900398noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-32026875577568615812013-04-22T13:54:28.091+10:002013-04-22T13:54:28.091+10:00WOW just what I was searching for. Came here by se...WOW just what I was searching for. Came here by searching for waterproof samsung galaxy s3 case<br /><br />My web-site <a href="http://www.thelandof10000homeless.com/rudimentary-details-of-iphone-4s-cases-across-the-uk/" rel="nofollow">http://www.thelandof10000homeless.com/</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-58323836373120787782013-04-22T05:26:01.814+10:002013-04-22T05:26:01.814+10:00Hi this is kinda of off topic but I was wondering ...Hi this is kinda of off topic but I was wondering if blogs use WYSIWYG editors <br />or if you have to manually code with HTML. I'm starting a blog soon but have no coding knowledge so I wanted to get guidance from someone with experience. Any help would be enormously appreciated!<br /><br />Feel free to visit my weblog :: <a href="http://awurl.com/LykEV67RD" rel="nofollow">http://awurl.com</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-3293963959518311462013-04-19T01:18:17.553+10:002013-04-19T01:18:17.553+10:00I think forgiveness is an ongoing process, I don&#...I think forgiveness is an ongoing process, I don't believe it is something that can be done once and forgotten. Well, I'm sure it can be done once in many small cases -- my son dropped a new dish the other day and it broke. I didn't even have to contemplate forgiveness. But the things that are really important, when someone has deeply wounded us, I think we have to choose to forgive many times over before it will "take". There are a few things that I have been forgiving for 25 or 19 or 8 years, and it still hurts every time.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01067954787472463337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-2638514029065347752013-04-18T14:37:54.056+10:002013-04-18T14:37:54.056+10:00I love the honesty of this comment :)
It does fee...I love the honesty of this comment :)<br /><br />It does feel like that, doesn't it, as if by forgiving we're condoning something. And when you look at that indelible mark on your soul, what would be more evil than perpetuating the damage, going along with it? It's like you're giving mental assent to this thing happening to other people and to yourself again. How or why would you do that if you have your faculties about you and aren't in some sort of a cult? Sometimes what forgiveness feels like is being asked to go back to sleep, to push down whatever anger or boundary-setting desires you had in the first place and which are often suppressed, if the mark goes deep and we don't have the support of our culture to stand up for ourselves. As if it's not hard enough to stay awake as it is. <br /><br />I have to keep reminding myself over and over again that forgiveness isn't about *that*. It's just that it lives next door to it, so I keep getting it mixed up in my own head and soul. I have to keep reminding myself that forgiveness is more about letting go of the binding that exists between us and that thing, the bit that makes it keep cutting into our skin. So it's not ignoring the marks that are already there, but it's helping to prevent them from going any deeper.<br /><br />Because yeah, forgiving is certainly not about forgetting. And you can say no and stand your ground and be forgiving someone all at the same time, mereckons.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122659239039900398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-91068483867824512032013-04-17T14:09:32.605+10:002013-04-17T14:09:32.605+10:00Honestly? I hate forgiveness. It feels like saying...Honestly? I hate forgiveness. It feels like saying something is OK, when it's not ok, and may never be ok. I hate feeling like I have to let go of something that's left an indelible mark on my soul. But then, what's that old proverb about how hating doesn't ever hurt the other person? Yeah, that. It's not worth the grip required to hang on to. (But I still feel robbed of something when I forgive.)Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01067954787472463337noreply@blogger.com