tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post8765718440553460791..comments2023-07-17T23:10:02.228+10:00Comments on Discombobula: How Can the Beaches Accommodate ...Suehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01122659239039900398noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-7482404293285798732010-01-04T13:15:16.913+11:002010-01-04T13:15:16.913+11:00Barbara - the lucky lads I choose? Well, that'...Barbara - the lucky lads I choose? Well, that's a nice way of putting it, hah. Actually I feel funny rejecting people. I have had to say to myself, "all is fair in love and dating. You do not date people you do not want to out of any feelings of pity." Weird I have to say this to myself but it felt good to say it.<br /><br />I have rejected a few people already, "thanks but no thanks." All of them because they didn't seem to read my profile. A non-negotiable to me is to find someone who is regularly indulging their creativity. None of these people were. Don't people read???<br /><br />Axe murderers, lol. I think some people probably still do think that. I must admit it's gone through my own mind. Thank you for the advice. I think that must be something people DO get caught up in, yeah. I don't want to make that mistake. Thank you :)Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122659239039900398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-88828670667163607952010-01-03T16:17:27.185+11:002010-01-03T16:17:27.185+11:00Good for you! I want details on all the lucky lad...Good for you! I want details on all the lucky lads you choose. Its so true that there are a lot of common "lines" people use in those profiles, very amusing. I consider myself an expert at online dating sites, being a pioneer from 2001 when people still thought they were where axe murders found their prey. If I can share one tiny bit of unsolicited advise it would be: don't get caught in the e-mail/IM trap. Get on the phone ASAP to see what the person is really like and save yourself a lot of time. :)Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-53567077311227888072010-01-03T15:38:15.464+11:002010-01-03T15:38:15.464+11:00Sabre - LOL. Well, I'd rather spend some days...Sabre - LOL. Well, I'd rather spend <i>some</i> days reading a book :) It's funny just how much timing is everything, isn't it. It's a good thing to know that you are not ready.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122659239039900398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-57208497995143216282010-01-03T12:06:53.404+11:002010-01-03T12:06:53.404+11:00Is there enough itchy sand in the Sahara for all t...Is there enough itchy sand in the Sahara for all those "romantics"?<br />I think I would rather spend a day reading a good book...<br />Good on ya though, Sue, and best of luck to ya! I am not there yet (meaning ready to start dating again) I don't think, but maybe one day soon.Kim Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02975389500855788501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-10418060017596770442010-01-03T11:06:52.385+11:002010-01-03T11:06:52.385+11:00Tess - wow, we seem to be sort of tracking along s...Tess - wow, we seem to be sort of tracking along some of the same paths at the moment. Joining a dating site is a bit trepidatious, is it not? I had to sit there yesterday and define my boundaries to myself: no going out with someone just because they have asked you. Dating requires great honesty, sometimes it feels a little brutal, but it's necessary. Eeek :) <br /><br />Kel - thank you!! Haha :) Trying not to have too many expectations as those little buggers trip me up :)Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122659239039900398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-5192998577577930972010-01-03T09:48:23.023+11:002010-01-03T09:48:23.023+11:00may you find a soulmate with sand between their to...may you find a soulmate with sand between their toes :pKelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18425317942978557478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4879615387850345622.post-38125677705460773102010-01-03T02:49:05.426+11:002010-01-03T02:49:05.426+11:00Oh, exciting, me too! Joined a dating site I mean ...Oh, exciting, me too! Joined a dating site I mean not talked about walking along the beach!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com